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Creating Space for Success: Letting Go of What No Longer Serves You

Creating Space for Success: Letting Go of What No Longer Serves You

When I first started my business, I was determined to make it work at all costs. I even had a hat that said "Just Say Yes," and I lived by that mantra. I said yes to every opportunity, every project, and every client that came my way. I thought this was the key to success—the more I did, the faster I’d grow.

But it didn’t take long for that mindset to catch up with me. Instead of feeling accomplished, I felt overwhelmed. My days were packed, my energy was drained, and I was constantly juggling tasks that didn’t light me up. I wore that hat with pride, but all it did was lead me straight to burnout.

I had confused being busy with being productive. But here’s the truth: productivity does not equal success. Just because I was constantly doing something didn’t mean I was moving in the right direction. I was stuck in a cycle of overcommitment, saying yes to things that didn’t align with my bigger vision simply because I thought I had to.

The turning point came when I realized that success isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing what matters. I took a hard look at my commitments and asked myself: Does this serve my purpose? Does this align with the life and business I want to create? If the answer was no, I let it go.

Letting go wasn’t easy at first. It felt counterintuitive to say no when I had built my entire business around saying yes. But as I released the projects, clients, and tasks that no longer served me, something incredible happened. I created space—space for creativity, for aligned opportunities, and for the kind of success that felt good.

By focusing on what truly mattered, I found myself not just growing my business, but thriving in it. I had more energy, more clarity, and more time to pour into the areas that aligned with my purpose. I wasn’t just busy anymore; I was intentional.

Success isn’t about filling every hour of your day with tasks. It’s about creating space for what truly lights you up. Sometimes, that means letting go of the things—and even the mindsets—that no longer serve you. And when you do, you’ll find that success flows in more naturally, because you’re aligned with what you’re meant to be doing.

So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed or burnt out, take a moment to evaluate. What are you holding onto that’s no longer serving you? What can you release to create space for something better?

Remember, you don’t have to say yes to everything to be successful. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is say no—and in doing so, say yes to yourself.

Listen To The Full Like A Mom Podcast Episode Where I Talk All About This!

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